You are beautiful. Everyone of us is. But for you and others to recognise that, you need to love yourself. Go on, every time you look in the mirror, tell that person how much you love them.

We all have shackles in our life that hold us back, the obvious one is our behaviour, but the one no one sees, the most subtle and yet strong is our vocabulary.

You don't see it? To be doctor, you need to know the terminology. To be a lawyer you need to argue with the correct vocabulary. With the wrong vocabulary, you wouldn't be very successful at all.

Okay, let's say you speak Japanese, your fate will be among Japanese people right?

Now imagine your vocabulary is so negative and self-destructive, your fate will be with negativity.

My teacher had told me this saying from The Tao -

"Beware of your thoughts, for they may become your words,

 Beware your words, for they may become your actions,

 Beware your actions, for they may become your habits,

 And beware your habits, for they seal your fate..."

What's stopping you getting that dream house? or your perfect soul-mate? 

YOU

Not the answer you were expecting? Well the truth is, you create your own reality.

Your thoughts and speech can inhibit your growth if you are not aware of them. Just by a few simple words and negative thoughts - you create  boundaries to your limitless power.

We all know how negative thinking can affect your health through stress etc. But your thoughts manifest in all areas of your life and adapting a narrow minded view won't help. For example, you think that there is no cure for cancer. You've already created a barrier and have given up before even starting. 

Speech is just as important. Many people cause their own self-destructive patterns by repeatedly saying mantras without even realising it like "I'm sad" and "I'm an idiot". 

The subconscious mind doesn't differentiate between what you mean to say and what you don't. How do you think hypnosis works? 

If you become the embodiment of sadness, of being an idiot, how are you going to be successful at your other tasks?

...IS A BLESSING IN DISGUISE. (unless your not bothered)

This applies to anything and everything. Every problem in your life is for your own good and its what makes life exciting.

But the minute you feel sorry for yourself and sit in the corner then your halting your own progress.

Lets use an example such as hair loss - For those who accept that they cannot do anything about it, it truly is a curse. However, it can be a blessing for those who act upon it.A person with hair loss may start to research the causes of it and how to stop it. Through this process he will acquire knowledge useful to other areas in his life. i.e some people may realise the importance of diet, thinking, exercise etc when they see a link between the two.

The basic gist of this post is not to accept a curse as a "curse"rather a blessing, the universe is giving you an opportunity to change - so take it =)